After almost 30 Years in Fitness, I’ve Learned the Workout Isn’t the Hardest Part

Integrity Fitness Has Changed- Here is why.

 

When I first started in the fitness industry, I thought I knew exactly what people wanted.

They wanted results.

And by results, I meant getting lean, ripped, strong and into the best shape of their lives.

In my 20s and early 30s, that was my world. I trained people for bodybuilding shows. We dieted hard. We lifted heavy. Conditioning was intense. People packed their meals, controlled their carbohydrates and trained five or six days a week.

And it worked.

I’ve watched thousands of pounds disappear through our programs and transformation challenges. I’ve seen incredible physical transformations. I’ve helped people become stronger and fitter than they ever imagined they could be.

But after almost three decades of coaching, I’ve learned something much more important:

Getting someone into great shape isn’t necessarily the hardest part. Helping them stay healthy for the next 10, 20 or 30 years is.

Fitness Changes As We Change

When you’re younger, physical change can be incredibly motivating.

Your waist gets smaller. Your shoulders develop. You suddenly notice definition in your arms. Your clothes fit differently. You lift heavier weights.

You can see the reward for your effort.

For many people, particularly through their 20s, 30s and early 40s, that becomes a powerful motivator.

But eventually something changes.

Life gets busier. Bodies change. Priorities change. We don’t necessarily want to bring prepared chicken and rice to someone’s wedding anymore. We don’t want our entire weekend dictated by our diet. We may not want to train six days a week.

And eventually we realize something else:

Peak physical condition isn’t supposed to last forever.

That’s something I misunderstood when I was younger.

I thought everybody should want to reach their absolute physical potential. What I’ve learned is that most people want something considerably more valuable.

They want to feel good.

They want to remain strong.

They want to move well.

They want to manage their weight.

They want energy.

They want to continue doing the things they love.

And they want fitness to fit into their life rather than having their entire life revolve around fitness.

I Understand This Differently at 57

I’m experiencing this myself now.

I’ve been training since I was a teenager. I’ve already hit my biggest lifts. I’ve been extremely lean. I’ve pushed my body about as far as I ever wanted to push it.

At 57, I’m not walking into the gym thinking I’m going to discover another set of abs I haven’t seen before.

I train because being strong matters.

I train because maintaining muscle matters.

I train because mobility matters.

I train because I want my body working for me 10 and 20 years from now.

In some ways, that’s actually harder.

When the mirror isn’t constantly rewarding you with dramatic changes, you need a deeper reason to keep showing up.

And that’s where I’ve come to understand the real power of community.

Community Became Our Secret Sauce

Community is suddenly a big word in the fitness industry.

For us, it isn’t new.

My wife, my team and I have been intentionally building it for years because we’ve watched what happens when women feel that they belong somewhere.

And community doesn’t simply mean putting 25 people into the same workout.

Being in a group isn’t the same as belonging to one.

For us, community means someone knows your name.

Someone understands what you’re working toward.

Someone notices when you’ve become stronger.

Someone asks how you’re doing.

Someone recognizes when you’ve been away.

And when you walk through the door, you feel like you belong there.

That matters enormously when you’ve been exercising for 10 or 15 years and the novelty is gone.

Maybe you’re 48.

Maybe you’re 55.

Maybe you’re 67.

You’re probably not trying to become a fitness model.

You’re training because you understand that what you’re doing today determines what your body will allow you to do tomorrow.

But knowing something is good for you doesn’t always make it easy to do.

People help make it easier.

Not Everyone Needs the Same Thing

Some people love competition.

They want leaderboards, times, scores and someone beside them pushing them to win.

There’s absolutely a place for that.

But that’s never been what I ultimately wanted Integrity Fitness to become.

I want a woman who’s extremely fit training beside a woman who’s beginning again at 55 and have both of them feel successful.

One might train at 90%.

The other might train at 60%.

Both showed up.

Both got stronger.

Both belong.

That’s the environment we’ve spent years trying to create.

Maybe Success Looks Different Now

I’ve changed tremendously as a coach over the years.

Strength training is still at the foundation of what I believe. I still want women lifting challenging weights. I still believe in improving body composition, eating enough protein, moving well and pushing yourself.

But I no longer believe fitness success is defined by how lean you can become.

I think success is being 50, 60 or 70 and still showing up.

It’s maintaining your muscle.

Protecting your independence.

Managing your weight.

Feeling capable.

Having energy.

And having people around you who make doing those things a little easier.

After all these years, maybe that’s the biggest lesson fitness has taught me.

You may start exercising because you want to change your body.

Eventually, you keep exercising because you want to protect your life.

And having a community where you’re noticed, understood, encouraged and genuinely wanted?

That might be one of the most powerful reasons of all to keep coming back.

— Paul Walker
Integrity Fitness

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